6/3-6/4
This is the first family vacation trip. We are going to the North carolina ocean isle beach which is 4 hours away driving. We left at 7:30pm and got to the hotel almost 12 o'clock. Aiden and I took a nap in the car, so when we got to the hotel we have a lot of energy and don't feel like going to sleep right away. Aiden and I were excited and played in the hotel and daddy and mommy hard to sleep.
The next day we had a good breakfast in the hotel and then head to beach. We went to meet Daddy's friends Les and Pam. They rented a condo by the beach. That's the first time I saw the ocean and the beach. I made sand castle, picking up the sea shells, chasing the waves. A lot of fun!
Back to the beach house, I went to the swiming pool, I wear the vest and discovered I can swim with the vest!
Sunday, June 6, 2010
Monday, May 31, 2010
提高孩子的社交能力
文学城上子女教育网友文摘
对女孩,要把孩子打扮漂亮穿着入时,这招主要针对4年级以上的孩子。社交能力强明白的孩子很多自己会主动要,弱的孩子不知道要,得靠父母主动张罗。俺看了俺俩娃学校上下几个年级的女小中,觉得有太多被父母不打扮孩子给耽误的。很多孩子的社交如何,从穿戴上就能看出来。我儿子年级就有一个女小中,被儿子说成是outcast,原因之一就是她穿戴打扮不对。最近遇到那女孩的妈,她正发愁女儿的社交问题(学校老师也认为是问题),因为没有朋友,导致孩子不喜欢学校。俺建议她从孩子的穿着打扮入手,因为这是最容易fix的,她给孩子买的衣服书包之类的还都是babyish的,而同学们都往teen上打扮了。对女孩来说,“漂亮”是有极大social value的东西,他人对待“漂亮”和不漂亮女孩的态度是极其不同的,而且自认漂亮的孩子自信心会比其他孩子强。另外“漂亮”这东西不完全是天生的,三分长相七分打扮,完全是可以靠努力得到的。
对男孩,team-sports,这主要是对针对小男孩。如果孩子大了,运动社交能力都不行的话,再弄就比较不容易,因为孩子自己不会愿意玩,孩子大了很又难逼他们。team-sports对社交的好处有:1,帮助孩子融入。2,提高自信。team-sports每星期有比赛(这是其它任何活动不能比的),父母教练以及同伴们的欢呼赞美助威对娃的自信有极大好处。俺娃玩那么多东西,没啥比得上在team-sports中得到的赞扬和认可多。虽然咱娃运动神经差,玩啥都是垫底的,但即使进不了球,每次传个好球都会被人赞扬,时不时的还会有其他孩子父母过来拍拍咱娃肩膀说进步大啥的,让娃感觉特好。3,让娃从小适应那些最aggressive的孩子。aggressive的孩子大概属于最难打交道的一类,会让很多孩子觉得intimidating,而他们在学校又常常是非常popular的孩子,这些孩子多集中在team-sports里,让娃从小和他们混一起,不一定能成为铁杆朋友,但会comfortable,在学校和他们打交道不会发触,想玩也能玩一起,搞定他们其他人就都不成问题了。总之,孩子的social-skill很大程度靠孩子天生的悟性及父母的“家教”,提高孩子的自信以及改善孩子的社交环境(popularity)能让孩子的天生能力得到最大的发挥和发展。俺家男小中就说,self-confidence和self-esteem高的时候,能觉得自己脑子特sharp,function得特好,做啥都对都能成。
对女孩,要把孩子打扮漂亮穿着入时,这招主要针对4年级以上的孩子。社交能力强明白的孩子很多自己会主动要,弱的孩子不知道要,得靠父母主动张罗。俺看了俺俩娃学校上下几个年级的女小中,觉得有太多被父母不打扮孩子给耽误的。很多孩子的社交如何,从穿戴上就能看出来。我儿子年级就有一个女小中,被儿子说成是outcast,原因之一就是她穿戴打扮不对。最近遇到那女孩的妈,她正发愁女儿的社交问题(学校老师也认为是问题),因为没有朋友,导致孩子不喜欢学校。俺建议她从孩子的穿着打扮入手,因为这是最容易fix的,她给孩子买的衣服书包之类的还都是babyish的,而同学们都往teen上打扮了。对女孩来说,“漂亮”是有极大social value的东西,他人对待“漂亮”和不漂亮女孩的态度是极其不同的,而且自认漂亮的孩子自信心会比其他孩子强。另外“漂亮”这东西不完全是天生的,三分长相七分打扮,完全是可以靠努力得到的。
对男孩,team-sports,这主要是对针对小男孩。如果孩子大了,运动社交能力都不行的话,再弄就比较不容易,因为孩子自己不会愿意玩,孩子大了很又难逼他们。team-sports对社交的好处有:1,帮助孩子融入。2,提高自信。team-sports每星期有比赛(这是其它任何活动不能比的),父母教练以及同伴们的欢呼赞美助威对娃的自信有极大好处。俺娃玩那么多东西,没啥比得上在team-sports中得到的赞扬和认可多。虽然咱娃运动神经差,玩啥都是垫底的,但即使进不了球,每次传个好球都会被人赞扬,时不时的还会有其他孩子父母过来拍拍咱娃肩膀说进步大啥的,让娃感觉特好。3,让娃从小适应那些最aggressive的孩子。aggressive的孩子大概属于最难打交道的一类,会让很多孩子觉得intimidating,而他们在学校又常常是非常popular的孩子,这些孩子多集中在team-sports里,让娃从小和他们混一起,不一定能成为铁杆朋友,但会comfortable,在学校和他们打交道不会发触,想玩也能玩一起,搞定他们其他人就都不成问题了。总之,孩子的social-skill很大程度靠孩子天生的悟性及父母的“家教”,提高孩子的自信以及改善孩子的社交环境(popularity)能让孩子的天生能力得到最大的发挥和发展。俺家男小中就说,self-confidence和self-esteem高的时候,能觉得自己脑子特sharp,function得特好,做啥都对都能成。
Saturday, May 29, 2010
A fun day in discovery place
5/29

Magic balls...

I'm trying to raise myself up, but still need a little help from Daddy

This is my favority part:


Brother bear and sister bear..
It's memorial day long weekend. Daddy and mommy took us to Discovery place. Water place is always my favority. I played quite a while there. Aiden seems enjoy it too.
Aiden just walks on this walking trail again and again practicing the climbing up/down stairs.
I'm playing "Mary has a little lamb". Did you hear that?
Magic balls...
I'm trying to raise myself up, but still need a little help from Daddy
This is my favority part:
Mommy on the nails bed, I dont want to do that.
Brother bear and sister bear..
We also watched the 3D movie "Dinasour" in the Discovery place theater. It looks so real. I almost can touch the dinasour and I'm a bit scared but excited too.
Sunday, May 9, 2010
Lindsey's birthday
Wednesday, April 14, 2010
4 year old check up
Today Mommy took me to see the pediatrician to get 4 year old check up.
Doctor checked my vision, 20/30, not the best but the doctor said at this age this is normal, but when I gets older, they want the vision to be 20/20.
Then my ear.
My height 42.25'' (90%), weight 40.6lbs (90%), Body Mass Index: 16 (75%).
Doctor said I need to go to bed earlier. I need 11 hours of sleep. I took a afternoon nap about 2 hours then night time sleep 11-8, 9 hours.
I brush my teeth once before bed now, doctor said need to brush teeth twice a day.
Doctor checked my vision, 20/30, not the best but the doctor said at this age this is normal, but when I gets older, they want the vision to be 20/20.
Then my ear.
My height 42.25'' (90%), weight 40.6lbs (90%), Body Mass Index: 16 (75%).
Doctor said I need to go to bed earlier. I need 11 hours of sleep. I took a afternoon nap about 2 hours then night time sleep 11-8, 9 hours.
I brush my teeth once before bed now, doctor said need to brush teeth twice a day.
Monday, March 29, 2010
Emma's favorite TV shows
1. Nick Jr. Channel
This channel is designed for pre-schooler, no any commercials.
The shows reruns all the time which helps kids memorize things but on the other hand, easy to get bored. Although Emma is still not tired with it yet. She seems can't live without this channel now. She certainly learn a lot of things from the shows.
2. Discovery/Life
It's good show. High definition.
3. 1000 ways to die.
I watched this show and Emma watched with me. I'm surprised Emma like it. The pictures are dramatic and most of time bloody. That doesn't seem bother her. I taught her some of the knowledge of safety with the show.
This channel is designed for pre-schooler, no any commercials.
The shows reruns all the time which helps kids memorize things but on the other hand, easy to get bored. Although Emma is still not tired with it yet. She seems can't live without this channel now. She certainly learn a lot of things from the shows.
2. Discovery/Life
It's good show. High definition.
3. 1000 ways to die.
I watched this show and Emma watched with me. I'm surprised Emma like it. The pictures are dramatic and most of time bloody. That doesn't seem bother her. I taught her some of the knowledge of safety with the show.
Monday, February 22, 2010
Feb 13 Chinese new year
This weekend is Chinese new year. But our family went to Raleigh to attend Great Grandpa's funeral. I didnt know much about Great Grandpa. Mommy said I met him when I was 3 months old.
It's like a field trip to me. I met Jason and Ashley again there and also Geiboria. It's my first time to live in the hotel. It has two beds in one room, I really like to sleep with Daddy mommy Aiden in the same room. I also like taking bath in the bathtub with Aiden. The breakfast of hotel is yammy too, a lot of food.
pic 1: Jason, Ashley, Gabria, Aiden and I in the funeral home.
pic 2: Aiden and I in the playground of mall in Raleigh
pic 3: Aiden and I enjoy the bath in the hotel room.
Saturday, January 30, 2010
Jan 17 -30
Jan 24
My classmates Dara and Isabella are having their 4 year old party at Little Gym. All the class are invited. We are having a fun birthday party there.
The snow storm hit Charlotte. When I woke up this morning, it's all white outside. I can not go to Dance school today. In the afternoon, I asked Daddy to take me outside for a walk in the snow.
Sunday, January 10, 2010
Emma says:
1. I bully Aiden, that means I love him!
2. I wish I pretend that I don't know Chinese, so my head will be smaller.
3. Mommy sigh when Emma don't eat the dinner: Emma, why are you so picky?
Emma: Mommy, I'm picky, but I still love you!
4. Mommy, I'm still sick, so I can drink Juice.
2. I wish I pretend that I don't know Chinese, so my head will be smaller.
3. Mommy sigh when Emma don't eat the dinner: Emma, why are you so picky?
Emma: Mommy, I'm picky, but I still love you!
4. Mommy, I'm still sick, so I can drink Juice.
ZT: Switch your baby Diet to Organic Food
Despite of fact conventional food is considered safe, many parents use more and more organic food for their kids. Many are even making their own baby food from organic ingredients. Since last year, according to marketing statistics, sales of organic baby food have jumped nearly 18 percent, double the overall growth of organic food sales. Especially new parents or expecting mothers, switch the diet of their children to organic food.
The concern regarding children food is that they are more vulnerable to toxins in their diets. As children grow rapidly, their organs and brains are forming and they eat more for their size than adults do. A study targeting kids whose diets were changed from regular to organic found that their pesticide levels decreased almost immediately.
The level of pesticide detected in the children remained imperceptible until their diets were switched back to conventional food. Eating organic is definitely not cheap. Buy fruits and vegetables known to have lower pesticide residues.
Scientists say the lowest pesticide levels are found in asparagus, avocados, broccoli, bananas, cauliflower, onions, sweet corn, kiwi, mangos, papaya, pineapples and sweet peas.
On the other hand, the highest pesticide levels, meanwhile, are found in apples, bell peppers, cherries, celery, imported grapes, nectarines, pears, peaches, potatoes, red raspberries, spinach, and strawberries.
1. Milk: “When you choose a glass of conventional milk, you are buying into a whole chemical system of agriculture,” says Dr. Greene. People who switch to organic milk typically do so because they are concerned about the antibiotics, artificial hormones and pesticides used in the commercial dairy industry. One recent United States Department of Agriculture survey found certain pesticides in about 30 percent of conventional milk samples and low levels in only one organic sample. The level is relatively low compared to some other foods, but many kids consume milk in large quantities.
2. Apples: Apples are the second most commonly eaten fresh fruit, after bananas, and they are also used in the second most popular juice, after oranges, according to Dr. Greene. But apples are also one of the most pesticide-contaminated fruits and vegetables. The good news is that organic apples are easy to find in regular grocery stores.
The concern regarding children food is that they are more vulnerable to toxins in their diets. As children grow rapidly, their organs and brains are forming and they eat more for their size than adults do. A study targeting kids whose diets were changed from regular to organic found that their pesticide levels decreased almost immediately.
The level of pesticide detected in the children remained imperceptible until their diets were switched back to conventional food. Eating organic is definitely not cheap. Buy fruits and vegetables known to have lower pesticide residues.
Scientists say the lowest pesticide levels are found in asparagus, avocados, broccoli, bananas, cauliflower, onions, sweet corn, kiwi, mangos, papaya, pineapples and sweet peas.
On the other hand, the highest pesticide levels, meanwhile, are found in apples, bell peppers, cherries, celery, imported grapes, nectarines, pears, peaches, potatoes, red raspberries, spinach, and strawberries.
1. Milk: “When you choose a glass of conventional milk, you are buying into a whole chemical system of agriculture,” says Dr. Greene. People who switch to organic milk typically do so because they are concerned about the antibiotics, artificial hormones and pesticides used in the commercial dairy industry. One recent United States Department of Agriculture survey found certain pesticides in about 30 percent of conventional milk samples and low levels in only one organic sample. The level is relatively low compared to some other foods, but many kids consume milk in large quantities.
2. Apples: Apples are the second most commonly eaten fresh fruit, after bananas, and they are also used in the second most popular juice, after oranges, according to Dr. Greene. But apples are also one of the most pesticide-contaminated fruits and vegetables. The good news is that organic apples are easy to find in regular grocery stores.
Tuesday, January 5, 2010
Jan.3-Jan16
Jan. 9 Sat
My Ballet class is switched to Sat from Monday. So Mommy send me to the dance class in the morning and I met a few Chinese kids there. It's more crowded than the Monday class.
Then we went to Lowes' to get the package of kid's building project (Coin bank this time). We don't have time to work there so we brought home to do that.
(photo: Aiden and I both love milk!)

Jan 3. Sunday
We went to the Charlotte nature museum. It's very cold today.


My Ballet class is switched to Sat from Monday. So Mommy send me to the dance class in the morning and I met a few Chinese kids there. It's more crowded than the Monday class.
Then we went to Lowes' to get the package of kid's building project (Coin bank this time). We don't have time to work there so we brought home to do that.
(photo: Aiden and I both love milk!)
Jan 3. Sunday
We went to the Charlotte nature museum. It's very cold today.
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